Hey drumhack....I think you just revealed your true self there.....ouch. So if you lived in Florida you would be the guy selling plywood for $100 a sheet because a storm is coming right????
Anyway...when I worked with this guy, we hung out and were fairly good friends but that was 13 years ago and seeing that I moved 850 miles away we haven't kept in contact. If he did do the unthinkable like you said you would....again...(ouch).....I would just say he can keep them and move on and leave it alone.