Yep, non-supportive comments on For Sale threads are just plain rude.If it happened on a used car lot without the buffer of cyber-space protecting the sour puss poster, there would be physical conflits galore.
I often visit a great vintage car site, which has instituted several rules related to for-sale comments:
Anyone is welcome to submit a comment, but please keep in mind the following rules:Rule #1: Be constructive. It’s easy to say something is ugly or stupid, and sometimes it’s even warranted. It’s harder, and more valuable, to say how you might improve it. Anyone can say a car sucks — real value is added when you can specify what is wrong and how it might be fixed.Rule #2: Experience trumps.Other readers care a lot more about your opinion if it’s born out of relevant experience. If you know the history of a particular vehicle, or a lot about the particular make or model, you’re much more likely to be interesting. Try to speak from your areas of expertise.Rule #3: The market sets the price.All too often we see cars sell to readers, quickly, for prices that others condemn. This is because for nearly every car, at every price, there will be a group of people who are certain it’s too expensive. We live in a free market, though, where the seller and buyer determine the price, so saying something is too expensive isn’t really saying anything all (see rule #2). If you want to make a case for a price, point to a comparable sale or offer instead.Rule #4: If you haven’t read all the rest of the comments, you’re not ready to leave one of your own. This is the digital equivalent of listening before speaking.Rule #5: Talk about the cars, not each other.Everyone is entitled to an opinion, even if you don’t agree with it. Criticisms of the character, taste, or general nature of other readers is a no-no. Period.