I used my company's search engine which I have to keep confidential for obvious reasons, and found the email addresses for 5 VP's of Ebay, because I was tired of talking to people that don't speak english in other country's. As luck would have it, one actally called me back, and we talked for around a half hour. Since many of us are buyers and sellers on the bay, I thought it would benefit all to share. If you are not part of the ebay family, ignore.
I started out by thanking him for calling me back, and said I've been a long time buyer, but recently started selling and worked up to 83 stars. I vented my frustration on how a buyer can post feedback after a transaction has been cancelled. Here is what I got back.
he said he understood my frustration, however he insisted that its important for buyers to express how the entire experience was for any given auction. Even if a bid was cancelled. He said the customer support team will only reverse feedback if it was discovered that a buyer was sending vulgar or other inappropiate messages, this can be in the form of profanity, threats, or a violation of rules like suggesting to buy outside of EB. I found out that my mistake was I did not block out any particular country for potential bidders.
next topic was, I asked why they do not allow sellers to post negative feedback for dead beat buyers. (like not paying)
he told me year ago, they did allow sellers to do this, and it turned into a feedback war game betweeen buyers and sellers, each would threaten to give negative feedback, and they discovered this was chasing buyers away. without buyers EB does not exist. so they removed that provision and only let buyers post nuetral and negative feedback and according to him it has increased sales greatly and has improved the stantards, by forcing sellers to stand behind what they sell. and going the extra mile to make sure buyers are happy so sellers do get good feedback. I guess I can understand his point on this issue. I know as a seller, I do everything I can to make a buyer happy. all in all, it was nice to talk to a person who listened and understood the frustrations behind the scenes, and this guy was real, and did listen.