Wish this thread had come along a few months ago. I've come out of a 30-plus-year retirement to play in a wonderful band ... with part of my head still stuck in 1975. We recorded some tracks for a promotional video (there are two drummers) over the summer and my performance with click was simply horrible. Cut everything two or three times and then had to come back a couple weeks later to clean it all up again. I could never hear myself; all I listened for was the click.
This dialog has made it clear to me this recording model isn't going away and I better catch up. My chief complaint is/was that the music is organic and songs should be allowed to find the flow and speed and finesse of the players. This thread has reiterated tempo trumps all and that one man's finesse is another man's sloppiness.
Great stuff.