If I was alerted to this set because of the OP, and was thinking of buying it, personally I would have sent a message to the guy that alerted me to give him a heads up informing him I was going to pull the trigger on it. If he was not sure about the set, I definitely would have warned him that he was about to lose it. Seems like an easy and honorable thing to do amongst members of the community.
I know many don't agree, but man, these communities and forums seem to be more and more about cut throat buying and selling than about collecting, sharing, and playing drums. Its kind of getting old.
Then again, maybe I'm tired and feeling a bit negative.
There aint no Sanityclause.