Yes - it does sound like he's too trusting and this deal may never even get started....or go any further. But if it does - it will be good for me = I get my money, good for the buyer...he will definately get the cymbals that he wants...baring they get lost/stollen etc along the way after I ship them. So all I have to do now is wait until he's back in town (Warsaw) on Friday and he answers my email containing total charges...shipping/insurance plus the $790 CDN.....we'll see.
And Blair....I'm with you - Western Union is totally the way to go for me. There will be no charges at my end if the money is in Canadian Funds....if not, I will refuse to take the cash......I've lost nothing because I have my cymbals and the only way I'm ever going to ship them to the buyer is if I get the Postage & Insurance plus my full asking price in CDN funds. The shipping to Poland is $127 CDN plus $10 or so insurance for $790. I might even ask for more insurance because the cymbals would be more than that to replace.
The insurance is cheap $1.50/$100 to $1,000. The postage is for surface....goes by boat and they wait until the boat is full before sailing so it can be 8 weeks or more. The next rate is 7-10 days and it's over $300.
That's the part that makes me go Hmmmmmm?He sure is a trusting soul to send that much cash to someone in another country that he doesn't even know.