Hi Guys,
Just came back from a gig and i'm so filled with rage that i was close to prison time .. Played an acoustic duo gig with my guitar player at one of our regular venues where we play twice a month, and we've always had a great time right up until the last set.. We've never had a problem with theft at this venue, but tonight was a different story.. For the first time in 6 years of playing at this college bar, i got my Sennheiser E604 tom/percussion microphone stolen in the blink of an eye..
I was literally tearing down my gear and removed the mic from my bongo's/percussion attachment clip, bent over to wrap up some XLR wires and "poof !! the mic was gone, in literally 5 seconds.. As most of you drummers can relate to, i was so livid, that after searching frantically for about 10 minutes in the vicinity of the 5 foot by 3 foot stage, i couldn't find anything, and proceeded to punch my music and mic stand with full force to the point where the bouncers had come over to find out what was going on.. This was the hot blooded Mediterranean in me coming out.. I think i may have an idea of who took the mic, but have no proof..
He was a guitar player who would ask me if he could play a tune every time we were playing , and when i refused and told him he that if he wanted to jam on stage, to come on Wednesdays which is jam night for all musicians.. He was always ****ed or disappointed when i would kindly tell him to please back off and come back on Wednesdays..He just happened to be there when this **** went down tonight, and conveniently left when overhearing that i threatened to " crack the head open" of the person responsible for stealing my gear.. When things like this happen, i can't help but react in this way because i'm just a working musician making a living, playing in front of a bunch of hormonal, narcotic induced young adults who are getting plastered..
It would be great if anyone could discuss a similar situation and what your reaction was, and how you handled the situation ? Just curious..
Please don't let any of my reactions determine who i am as person..This just happened at the wrong time, after a **** load of crap that has happened to me in the past couple of months.. Normally, i'm an all around,calm, cool, and collective nice guy..But tonight was the straw that broke the camel's back.. With that being said, i would like to say this to all who read about my experience..Please don't judge me because of my frustration, but only for my conviction..
Cheers !