I remember putting a winning ebay bid on a set of Slingerland Studio Kings at the last 3 seconds of an auction, praying that someone would come along and out bid me. I won the drums and then had to tell the wife. I feared for my life. When I told her, all she said was "Okay. Can't do anything about it now. When are they supposed to be delivered?" She was great about it. She even allowed me to drive down to Kentucky to buy a Mellotron a couple years ago. Then out of nowhre, she'll freak out that I spent $50 at the record store and won't talk to me for a week. It's hard to understand women.
BTW, I still have those Studio Kings (and the Mellotron for that matter.).