It depends on the gig. For rock and pop stuff, I use modern hardware, albeit lightweight by today's standards. Double braced, but lighter sturdy stands. I do not hang any clamps/arms/or drums off of them.
For jazz, the vintage stuff does just fine.
For rock, I do gig with a vintage MIJ kit and I use 70's Ludwig Atlas stands with them, including 1 vintage Ludwig flat base bottom, with modern middle and top sections (it fits nice and close to my bass drum for my ride, and I play my ride low and flat, so there's not much "strain" on the stand. Plus it fits beautifully under my other Atlases).
On gigs where drums are being provided, I'll take several vintage flat base stands as extras, because the drumkit provided notoriusly only has two cymbal stands. I like the flat base stuff, because the drums provided usually have ultra modern monster hardware that has a leg spread of about 10 feet! The flat base stuff easily fits underneath all these monster stands, without needing booms. They are easy to put in a small duffel bag that is easy to carry as well.
One key point to help make the vintage stuff more "durable": I use standard, automotive hose clamps as "memory locks". If one of the tightening screws lets go or comes loose, it won't fall down. It will be loose and move around a little, but won't fall. You have to pack up each stand piece seperatley, but to me it's worth it. Besides, the weight of the stand is the same, regardless of how much or little it's disassembled. I would rather take a few extra seconds to fit the pieces together (they are easy stands to put together after all) and have the safe feeling of knowing that my stands are all the more secure. Just label which stand piece goes with what other stand piece. For me it's easy: All the flat bases are the same (so it doesn't matter which one goes where), and I set all the middle sections at the same height, so again, it doesn't matter which one goes where, they are all the same height (or even better, use a long enough hardware case where the middle sections can just stay in place). All I have to pay attention to is the top section, where I just write with a Sharpie what cymbal goes on it on the underneath side of the chrome washer that is facing towards the floor (on the opposite side of where the bottom felt sits).
I hope this helps!