I have been playing in rock bands since I was a teenager and it's always the same old thing from guitarist, "We play to your volume" meanwhile, they are cranking up there amps to 10. They don't get it, a good drummer can play soft or loud, but it depends on the volume of the rest of the band. If a guitarist is screaming, I'm going to play louder, if he's quiet I'll quiet down a bit.Why do they always blame the drummer? Does this happen with you jazz guys as well?
Who've you been playing with all these years? What settings (environments)? If you've been playing since you were a teenager, and I'm supposing the group of folks you're playing with are of the same ilk, you should all understand dynamics. Maybe YOU are the problem. I've met so many flounder-pounders over the years, and they only have one volume. If you don't, and the others also don't have a good, firm grasp on dynamics, any project will be doomed. There's no secret formula. Kripes! You're all in the same room together. If you's can't figure it out, how can a forum help? Really!!
And, if the stupid comment about guitarists being "Flatulent Ego Maniacs" is any indication of who that idiot has been playing with, then he's doomed as well. C'mon. Good luck working on your interplay with that attitude, John! Am I the only lucky drummer to have had only positive experiences with the band-mates I've chosen to work with? For almost 40 years? Nay!!
A dumb thread with no regard to vintage drums. Seems like just more peeing, here, lately. What's happening? This is more akin to a CL rant. Figure it out, big boy.
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