I've given up doing this kinda thing. I need my snare at the right height and level, and cymbals have to be high enough above the drums so that I don't smash my knuckles on the rims trying to hit them. Usually just a seat height adjustment can achieve this.
I only bring this up because I'm going to more and more gigs where the backline is provided. It's a scary thing to be told "Oh yeah, just bring cymbals, everything else will be there" when you don't know what everything else even is. I usually bring a snare, cymbals, and pedal. Sometimes I'm asked to bring my own stool; which seems the weirdest personal thing to have to bring.
But my MO has been to raise/lower the seat according to where the snare is, and then adjust cymbals to a higher height. Since I'm playing someone else's drums, I try to be respectful and not change too much. At the same time, some people have weird setups.
Once I brought my own cymbals only to find that the set only had two cymbal stands (I use 2 or 3 crashes sometimes). I have a gig next month where the guy told me there will be a double-bass setup! It's totally hit and miss.
It's nice to be able to show up to a gig and load-in in one trip. But I love my drums and would like to bring them more often than I actually do sometimes.