I ask this because there are drumming subjects I would like to discuss that have nothing to do with vintage equipment, and as much as I like vintagedrumforum, I don't feel it's the place for me to make lengthy threads about how to build up single bass pedal speed or whatever.
I tried and tried with Drummerworld, but could never get past a state of New Forum Person Invisibility. Too insular. Too many in-jokes.
Things reached the point of no return for me there a few months ago when a drummer friend of mine passed away, I posted an RIP thread about it, and not a single person replied.
My last post there ever was in a subsequent thread about un-replied-to threads. I mentioned my own un-replied-to RIP thread and was again ignored. It put a sour taste in my mouth about further participation at Drummerworld.
Drumforum.org seems less cliquish, but not enough sub forums; everything winds up in the General sub, including off-topic posts.
The Pearl Drummers' Forum is actually good, and friendly, but as one might expect, everything is filtered through love of Pearl equipment. I only qualify because of my old CB700 tubs anyway, and have relatively little interest in Pearl's current products.
I've participated in plenty of online forums over the years, going back to before the www, so I like to think I know the etiquette, be cool, don't come on like a know-it-all, show interest in others' topics, etc.
Suggestions are requested. I'm used to feeling like a I have an online "home" for my hobbies.