Agreed. I will say this however, in most and really nearly all cases, the reason that electronic drums and used is a volume or convenience concession; basically using them as replacements for real drums when real drums are not feasible. To me, the unfortunate thing is that they can become an instrument into themselves in precisely the same way that an unweighted synthesizer is not the same thing as a grand piano. When a drummer starts looking at an electronic kit in the fashion as opposed to just a quieter drum set, then it becomes something altogether different.
Back in the 80's I played in a pop cover band for a couple of years and truly my favorite thing about it was playing an electronic kit. I used a 22 space rack full of reverb units, samplers, drum machines keyboard modules, you name it and it was in there. All the 80's highly produced stuff I recreated note for note. Spent hours creating and modifying samples, adjusting reverbs and effects units and getting that all set up as one MIDI command per song. Need that ballad floor tom flam on 4 going into the chorus of the power ballad with a 5 sec reverb? Got it. Needed Phil Collins' monster sound with non-linear reverb? Got it. Need reverse reverb swell into a snare drum/tambourine hit? Got it.
One of my favorite songs to play was "I Need You Tonight" by INXS. The shaker was on my left foot trigger pedal with a delay to create the 16th note and quarter with my right foot. Everything else percussion on that track from the snare/handclap layer, the rim clicks, bongos, agogo bell, china/white noise layer was all there and all played by hand. I enjoyed coming up with the sounds and then figuring out how to physically play all that programmed stuff.
Guys complained at the time about "Simmons elbow". I never understood that. They are not acoustic drums so quit playing than that way. Now that cymbals are at least somewhat viable, you can set up a kit in a far more ergonomic fashion. You don't have to center a hi-hat over your left foot. Instead you can put it anywhere. For the cost of another pad and a Y cable you can duplicate it and put then wherever you want. One of the really cool things about that band was that people came in from all over the southeast and all said the same thing and that was that we sounded like we were playing live but listening to a studio recording.
So I'll jump off my soapbox and say, if you really want to become a better drummer, stick with real drums. If you want to experiment with electronics then that is fine. Understand what they are and what they are not, but don't get rid of your acoustic kit. They are very different instruments and should be approached as such.